Lean On Me.

Since the beginning of time, I’ve always been a pretty horrific friend and dreadful significant other. I’m not really sure why but it is something that I am trying really hard to work on. I don’t want to be unreliable. I don’t want to be selfish and mean. I want nothing more than to be someone that a person can lean on. Someone that can be counted on when the going gets tough and the tough gets going. Being selfish doesn’t help that cause. Neither does not thinking before I speak or react. I want to be a better person. I feel like I’ve used being treated like shit as a crutch to just be…. well… shitty.

So how do you completely change who you are? What are the stepping stones? What’s the first directive, the course of action?

How do I change so that way the people I love can lean on me?


One thought on “Lean On Me.

  1. You do exactly what your heart tells you to do. You have to be selfish sometimes. You have to be greedy sometimes. Just remember they will at some point as well. The give and take is what a relationship is all about. The stepping stones if to find someone who understands that you have to learn that and how to get there from where you are. Then once you are there, they must be able to balance you out as well. No two people will balance the same but there is a match out there

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